| The Balance of Temperment: Dom or Sub |
[11 Aug 2006|02:04am] |
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How does a man treat a woman?
There are clearly defined roles for men when it comes to courtship, dating, relationships and marriage. These roles are imparted to men from the time they are born, they pick them up from their fathers, their neighbors, the radio, TV, parties, friends, teachers, etc.
Men observe how other men treat women, and usually unknownly base their ideas off of this. So the achietype is this:
Respect
Understanding
Compasion
Force
Patience
Love
Trust
If a man exhibits these traits he is deemed socialy attractive to women. My question is: do women really want these traits, or is this list of virtues simply to broad to form any type of particular judgement based off of them.
Sayings like opposits attract, and women like the bad boys, are these acurate? Is there any merit to them?
So far I have used my charm and kindness to "win" women. Making the first move and circling in as the hawk circles its prey in the air.
However now I am attempting a new method. Partly one not of my choosing, as this current relationship has begun from the other direction.
So Sub and Dom. Can we really classify each partner in a relationship as one or the other? If so how does one pick the traits that determine the assignment of the category?
Do most women have a natural desire to be dominated by a man, yet still respected? Where does the line of an equal relationship stop, and the line of fetish begin?
These are all questions that I hope to find the answer to in the comming months.
Time for some fun....god knows she deserves it.
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| Pre Party |
[11 Aug 2006|04:52pm] |
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I am now at Brian's awaiting the people to arrive.
Its his big moving in party. While a large 2 bedroom apartment, he must have invited 30 people, and I somehow doubt that there is quite enough room for that many drunken people.
We shall see how it goes.
My trust is in Vegas, lets see if it gets broken.
Till then I plan to get shit faced and throw up. Work tomorrow.
Oh and I finnally got like 11hrs of sleep. Feels strange to be well rested. Though no sleep likely tonight!!! woot.
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